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August 01, 2024
Leading Story
Understanding the Weaponization of DEI
This week, we explore the increasing misuse of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) to discredit and demean leaders of color. Recently, Vice President Kamala Harris was labeled as “the country’s first DEI vice president” by some conservatives, aiming to diminish her substantial credentials and accomplishments. This label implies she reached her position solely because of her race and gender.
Such narratives are part of a broader anti-DEI movement, which has wrongly blamed DEI initiatives for various societal issues, from the collapse of Silicon Valley Bank to Boeing’s safety crisis. This scapegoating reflects a resistance to genuine efforts aimed at fostering diversity and inclusion within institutions.
When we hear colleagues weaponizing the term DEI in the workplace, we should speak up. Here are some examples of responses you can use to intervene:
“Using words like diversity hire or DEI hire is hurtful and harmful. I know I would be hurt if someone referred to me that way. Can we address her by her name please?”
“How would you feel if someone said you only got that job because you are a man?”
“Why would we assume that he is less qualified? Is there something in his background, experience, or credentials that leads you to believe that?”
Let's empower ourselves by challenging assumptions about qualifications and standing firm in the value of our experiences and credentials. Our achievements should be celebrated and respected, not diminished by harmful labels.
Empowerment Tip: Stand tall and proud of your accomplishments. Let's continue to support and uplift each other, transforming narratives and championing true equality.
Beauty
Jackie Aina and Ciara Team Up with NARS in a Stunning Collab Video
Beauty influencer Jackie Aina and singer Ciara have taken social media by storm with their latest collaboration with luxe makeup brand NARS. In a video posted on July 28, the duo dazzled fans with their platinum blonde looks as they sauntered to the background music.
Additionally, Ciara celebrated “Ciara Day” in Atlanta on the same day, a recognition given by Councilman Michael Julian Bond. She expressed her gratitude for the honor, thanking her city for the incredible recognition.
Travel
Yes, Tiffany… There are Grocery Stores in Africa
Tiffany Haddish has sparked controversy with her recent TikTok video documenting a visit to a grocery store in Zimbabwe. The comedian faced heavy criticism for her seemingly "ignorant" comments about the quality and contents of the store, expressing surprise at items like organic strawberries and frozen foods. Critics accused Haddish of perpetuating harmful stereotypes and mocking Zimbabweans with her reactions and use of an "African" accent.
In response to the backlash, Haddish defended herself, stating that her intention was to call out the false portrayal of African stores by U.S. media.
Business
Side Hustle Success
Domonique Brown’s side hustle, DomoINK, generated an impressive $333,600 in gross profits last year, averaging $27,800 per month. This venture now outpaces her full-time job as a graphic designer, where she earns a $90,000 annual salary. Brown dedicates about two hours daily to maintaining customer relations, creating content, and developing new artwork for DomoINK. Her background in real estate and marketing has been instrumental in honing her sales skills, contributing to her business success.
Health
You are Peeing Wrong
While peeing might seem like a natural reflex, the way you do it could impact your pelvic floor health. This issue recently gained attention in a TikTok video where @postvirallife shared a surprising tip from a vaginal ultrasound technician. Curious about what she learned?
Etiquette
The Art of Smoking
Many use cannabis for relaxation or creativity, and for some, it has become a part of their daily routine. A certified stoner shares their journey from picking up their first joint in college to becoming a seasoned user, emphasizing the importance of weed etiquette. With insights from weed expert Bri Ash, this article offers valuable tips for being a responsible and considerate stoner. Read on to become a more mindful stoner.
This is only for those who are in areas where this is legal.
Celebrity
R&B singer Mya recently revealed that she has been celibate for seven years, attributing this self-discipline practice to bringing more mental clarity into her life. During an interview on "Way Up with Angela Yee," she shared how abstaining from relationships and intimacy shifted her mindset, reducing the pressure to conform to societal expectations around marriage and children. Mya described this period as a necessary spiritual journey, emphasizing the importance of being selective and taking self-accountability. Could you or would you embark on a similar journey of self-discipline for mental clarity?
Word of the week
Shibboleth
Any word or phrase that can distinguish members from outsiders, usually in the pronunciation of the word. For example, the way a person pronounces a street can differentiate if a person is local or not.
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